Victoria, I agree that writing has helped bring some order to my reflections on my experience. There are some subjects that are very raw and too personal to share. I also think some scenarios we find ourselves in life are so disturbing that it's a bit unfair to share them with others. I agree that my internal barometer seems to be better calibrated, though it does have some off days.
Thank you, David. I’m deeply sorry for your loss. I read your post and then listened to your interview. You did well. You were clear and articulate and you sounded strong. Like you, I am writing to attempt to bring some good out of terrible loss. Hearing the strength in your voice gives me hope that it’s worth the effort. May your writing bring peace to you and solace and help to your readers.
Patricia I am sorry to read about your situation. Thank you for your comment and feedback on the interview. I think my "performance" was helped by the fact I did not have timeto dwell on the pros and cons of sharing too much. I certainly could not have done this a few years ago.
Thanks, David. In your interview with Paulette, I appreciated how you said your publication brings 'objectivity to a subjective experience'. Perhaps your writing has also prepared you for these spot interviews!
I agree; some empathetic people are always ready to read/listen. Voicing our experiences can give someone else the words/reframe they need wherever they are on their journey.
One risk I'd add, is writing about something that can be triggering or too raw, re-exposing ourselves to traumatic moments. My internal barometer has evolved about what's ok/not ok to share.
Victoria, I agree that writing has helped bring some order to my reflections on my experience. There are some subjects that are very raw and too personal to share. I also think some scenarios we find ourselves in life are so disturbing that it's a bit unfair to share them with others. I agree that my internal barometer seems to be better calibrated, though it does have some off days.
Thank you, David. I’m deeply sorry for your loss. I read your post and then listened to your interview. You did well. You were clear and articulate and you sounded strong. Like you, I am writing to attempt to bring some good out of terrible loss. Hearing the strength in your voice gives me hope that it’s worth the effort. May your writing bring peace to you and solace and help to your readers.
Patricia I am sorry to read about your situation. Thank you for your comment and feedback on the interview. I think my "performance" was helped by the fact I did not have timeto dwell on the pros and cons of sharing too much. I certainly could not have done this a few years ago.
Thanks, David. In your interview with Paulette, I appreciated how you said your publication brings 'objectivity to a subjective experience'. Perhaps your writing has also prepared you for these spot interviews!
I agree; some empathetic people are always ready to read/listen. Voicing our experiences can give someone else the words/reframe they need wherever they are on their journey.
One risk I'd add, is writing about something that can be triggering or too raw, re-exposing ourselves to traumatic moments. My internal barometer has evolved about what's ok/not ok to share.